Articles and Insights
We often learn by reading and understanding the thoughts of others. In this section we have put together a few articles and insights that we feel may be interesting.
As an Executive Coach and a Trustee at the Edinburgh International Book Festival I am often asked for book recommendations, for inspiration and pleasure. Here are my favourite reads right now:
Man's Search for Meaning
by Viktor E Frankl. A compelling account of Frankl's time in a Nazi concentration camp, remarkable for his assertion that "Those who have a 'why' to live can bear almost any 'how'", and the resultant inspiration of the power to choose one's attitude.
The Coaching Habit
by Michael Bungay Stanier. A must-read book for managers and leaders as well as coaches, explaining how to better lead your teams through simple coaching habits. I wish I'd read this years ago!
Tiny Habits
by BJ Fogg. This book sets out a different approach to creating lasting behavioural change which contends that the key is starting small and making it feel good. I was sceptical at first but found it a compelling read.
Rebel Ideas
by Matthew Syed. An easy read with a strong logical argument (and great stories) that diversity in how we think is essential for solving complex problems. I could not agree more!
When the Dust Settles
by Lucy Easthorpe. Eastthorpe's memoir of her experiences as a disaster manager, planning for and dealing with natural and manmade disasters, is gripping, insightful, compassionate, and (darkly) funny.
Invisible women
by Caroline Criado Perez: a genuinely eye-opening exposure of data bias and its impact on gender (in)equality. So many nuggets you'll want to quote to family and colleagues!
How women rise
by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith: tackling 12 behaviours which can hold us back in our careers - an easy and insightful read with solutions to reform bad habits.
The Culture Code
by Daniel Coyle: I've long been fascinated by the impact of Culture on organisations and I learn best from books which marry theory with case studies. So I found Coyle's combination of science, stories and actionable insights highly readable.
Turn the Ship Around
by L David Marquet: the true story of how the Santa Fe was transformed from the worst to best in the US Navy fleet by challenging the traditional leader-follower approach - an inspiration for all leaders.
The 100 Year-Life
by Lynda Gratton & Andrew Scott: in this age of longevity, how do we rethink our education, career, finances and relationship to create a fulfilling 100-year life.
Let me know what you think of these suggestions and share your own - I'm always looking for the inspiration and sheer enjoyment which great books can bring!
Common themes from my coaching work
What are my strengths
What are your strengths? ‘Phone’ a friend! In my Executive Coaching practice I believe passionately that the Coachee and I should spend as much time focused on elevating their strengths as tackling their areas for development. Drawing on and showcasing your strengths is what makes you stand out from your peers…
Read MoreOwn your weather
A Coaching topic relevant for this sunny spell: Own your Weather! In my Executive Coaching practice I regularly discuss with coachees that how you show up matters – to your teammates, your wider colleagues, your clients. Attitude is contagious – for better and for worse – and I’m a huge proponent…
Read More60th Birthday Party aka What’s truly important to you
‘The 60th Birthday Party’ aka ‘What’s truly important to you’ I often use LinkedIn posts to share observations or lessons learned from my Executive Coaching practice hoping that they resonate with or help others. Today I’d like to share a tool which I’ve found effective: ‘The 60th Birthday Party’. Recently a…
Read MoreI’ve been told “be more strategic”: what can I do?
In my Executive Coaching practice clients often want to work out how to address feedback they have been given. My start point is to encourage the client to approach the feedback with curiosity, not defensiveness: in particular, ask for examples of the skill which they are being asked to develop,…
Read More“Where am I going?” 3 sets of questions to help you reflect
Since the pandemic I’ve noticed a new trend in those approaching me to coach them – an increase in people who are well-established in their careers but are asking themselves “Where am I going?” and who want a safe space to work out the answer for themselves. Many first step…
Read MoreGrowth Mindset: why and how to have one
If I could gift one thing to my Coaching clients (and my children, family, friends, everyone!) it would be this – a Growth Mindset: a fundamental belief that you can grow, learn and improve with intention and application. Nothing is more useful for making the most of opportunities and riding…
Read MoreMy ‘This is why I coach’ moment
I’m a fan of Simon Sinek and his encouragement for individuals and companies to find their Purpose and ‘Start with Why’. On his company website there is an exercise he recommends to help you identify your Why. But sometimes no ‘exercise’ is needed; sometimes you have a moment where you…
Read MoreThe power of reflection
When I am asked to name the key thing which I have learned through my journey as an Executive Coach it is the power of reflection. I wish I had known about the positive impacts of reflection when I was in the corporate world, as I believe it would have made…
Read MoreHow do you want to show up?
I recently wrote about the Power of Reflection https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/power-reflection-irene-grant Whilst the beauty of reflection is that you choose what to reflect upon – what’s important for you at that time – I thought it might be useful to follow up with a suggestion for Reflection which I also use in…
Read MoreWhat does ‘success’ mean to you?
When a coaching client feels they are at a crossroads, one of the first questions I ask them is “what does ‘success’ mean to you?” Often it is not a question which they have consciously considered but doing so can bring a very different perspective to what the next chapter…
Read MoreGrow in confidence: 7 coaching tips
As an Executive Coach & Mentor, with a focus on leadership, I regularly have clients tell me “I’d like to be more confident”. It is a concern I like to dig into: when have you felt confident and when, conversely, have you lacked confidence?; what would ‘more confident’ look and feel…
Read MoreFinding the right path for you
There is a Chinese proverb which states “There are many paths to the top of the mountain, but the view is always the same”. In my practice as an Executive Coach and Mentor, with a focus on leadership, it is a quote which I often share with clients who are…
Read MoreThoughts about leadership
Qualities of great leaders
Leadership fascinates me, currently as an Executive Coach and Non-Executive Director and previously in my leadership role in a complex global organisation. At a macro level, the behaviours and capabilities of an organisation’s leaders have a huge impact on engagement, productivity, morale and retention. At a human level, for many…
Read MoreWhy coach emerging leaders – 8 compelling reasons
I am regularly surprised by people who see Coaching as only ‘remedial’: their thinking seems to be “We might engage a coach if we have an underperformer but not for anything else”. What a missed opportunity! I thought I’d share my thoughts via LI to spread the message more widely…
Read MoreTake a break: good for you and your team
Take a break: Good for you and for your team! I’m a huge proponent of the benefits to a leader of taking a break from work: even a long weekend can recharge your batteries and remind you of the important things outside the office – health, family, friends, nature (I…
Read MoreTackling ‘us vs them
I’m currently coaching a leader who is tackling an all-too-common issue. She was recently appointed to lead a team where the previous head encouraged an ‘Us vs Them’ attitude. We’re working together on how she can turn this around; we thought sharing this topic in the attached Article on LI might…
Read MoreFeedback = breakfast of champions
In my Executive Coaching practice ‘Feedback’ comes up very regularly. It might be that the leader wants to create a team culture where people are open to giving and receiving feedback. Sometime the leader (particularly a new leader) is uncomfortable giving ‘negative’ feedback. Or the leader wants feedback from their…
Read MoreWhen you cannot delegate more
In March I wrote a piece about the ‘Art of Delegation’. A coachee challenged me: “That all sounds great. But what about when I cannot delegate more?” I’m sharing here on LI the exploratory work we did together, as others may be asking themselves the same question. When a leader is struggling with…
Read MoreThe Art of delegation
Delegation is a topic which comes up often in my Executive Coaching practice, even with senior leaders. So I want to share some thoughts which might help leaders or aspiring leaders think constructively about the ‘art’ of delegation: clear reasons to delegate, ways to tackle the barriers holding you back, and…
Read MoreMake people feel valued
Some of my coachees are talking about New Year Resolutions. Here’s one I recommend to all leaders (and folks generally!): Make People Feel Valued – it’s easy to do, costs nothing, and can have a huge positive impact. When we feel seen and appreciated, we feel good, we are more engaged…
Read More5 Questions to help you lead well
I want to share a theme from my experience of coaching leaders: the value of asking questions. Some might think this relevant only to new leaders. I’d disagree: often leaders feel they ought to know the answers whereas actually asking the question can be much more impactful. These coachees –…
Read MoreLeaders take note: we don’t need another hero
As my LI connections know well, I like to share learnings from my Executive Coaching practice, hoping they resonate with others. Here’s one which is not obvious: Leaders, don’t try to be a hero – your team and boss may not thank you for it. I recently held a tricky…
Read MoreLeading effectively in a hybrid world: 3 particular challenges & suggested solutions
In my Executive Coaching practice I particularly enjoy working with leaders who have a growth mindset and a thirst for learning and who are striving to be ever better in their roles. The topic of leading effectively in a hybrid world comes up regularly because it is something which we are…
Read MoreWhat would I change about leadership? Development!
I am asked regularly – based on my experiences as a senior leader, an Executive Coach, and a Non-Executive Director – if I could change one thing about leadership in organisations what would it be? My answer would be to make continuous leadership development a requirement for anyone who is…
Read MorePieces of advice, drawn from my own experience and my coaching work
Growing as your team grows: 3 areas to consider
As an Executive Coach & Mentor, with a focus on leadership, my assignments regularly involve a client who aspires to, or has been promoted to, a more senior leadership role. Some, happily, are in the positive position of “How do I perform this larger role to the best of my ability?’;…
Read MoreChanging organisation or career? 4 adages to consider…
Throughout the pandemic, individuals have been encouraged (or forced) to cope with enormous amounts of uncertainty and change. In my coaching practice, however, I am seeing individuals now choosing to change: it might be where they live (the much talked-about move from cities to the coast or countryside); it might be how…
Read MoreThis post is about taking my own advice!
This LI post is about taking my own advice! When I’m coaching a client who wants to move forward, I will often ask: – “What, specifically, do you want to achieve?”; then – “What steps could you take to make that happen?”; then, to reduce anxiety, – “What’s the downside…
Read MoreTaking my own advice – part 2
Taking my own advice – part 2 – NXD and Charity Trustee roles. When I am coaching or mentoring senior leaders I am often asked about the value of taking on Non Executive Director or Charity Trustee roles. This is not something to be undertaken lightly as you will be…
Read MoreTaking my own advice Part 3 – make time for ‘downtime’.
I love the Anne Lamott quote “almost everything will work if you unplug it for a few minutes…including you.” It’s a humorous take on a serious point: it is so important for physical and mental health to take regular and refreshing breaks from work. In my coaching practice, I am…
Read MoreJust been (or about to be) promoted? 6 Top Tips for Success
As an Executive Coach I am often engaged to support an individual’s role transition when they have just been promoted or are about to be promoted, leading a team. Coaching, which by its nature is tailored to the individual, is a great option for giving the individual a safe and confidential…
Read MoreTaking my own advice – Part 4: own and promote your value
In my Executive Coaching practice a common theme is discomfort with ‘self-promotion’. Clients tell me they are working hard, doing a great job but are being passed over for promotion or exciting projects, not getting the recognition or reward they feel they deserve. I ask “How do others know you’re…
Read MoreInterviews: 5 things to consider
In my coaching practice I regularly work with individuals who are looking to make a step change in their career, either within their current organisation, moving to a different organisation or changing careers completely. Every individual and situation is different but usually there is an interview to prepare for somewhere in…
Read MoreCommon themes from my consultancy work:
What purpose does Purpose play?
I asked my LI connections for suggestions of topics relevant to executive coaching and leadership about which I might write this year. The ever-inspiring Emma Lloyd suggested ‘Purpose’ – specifically the catchy title above – so here are some observations from my work with individuals, teams and organisations. What is Purpose?…
Read MoreCulture Counts! 10 signs that you’re in good shape
leadership teams, we talk regularly and deeply about Culture: what would a great Culture feel like to the organisation’s people?; how, as leaders, can they create the right conditions for the desired Culture to flourish; how does the organisation sustain that Culture over time despite changing personnel and challenging external…
Read MoreOrganisational Values: identify, explain, embed
In my Coaching and Consultancy work with leadership teams I often raise the topic of organisational Values. This gets met with a range of reactions from “Nonsense – that’s just consultants’ jargon” (No it’s not, as we’ll see below) through “Oh yes, they are not explicit but everyone knows what they…
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